When hubby comes home from work. #justl'maril

So when your man comes home from work how do u greet him?

When he comes home from that long day of work I guess you greet him with smiles, hugs, kisses and massage huh? Not like a full blown massage, more of rubbing his shoulders and back over his clothes to lossing the stress from the hard day at work is what I mean.

All women should know this pls. You better make sure you have your man's drink waiting on him before he walks through that door. There is no greater way to help a man unwind from his long day than a glass of chilled drink waiting on him. It could be something as simple as home made  fruit drinks. Of course pressent him his drink along with a kiss if you know what I mean.l

If your man had a bad day at work and he is angry and ready to go crazy, girl you better get your crazy on and make him forget that bad day. Let him feel your love and appreciation. When he arrives home is time to eliminate all the noise. Things like washers, TV or vacuum should be a no no at the time of hubby's arrival. Put your phones away and give him your full attention. Even the kids should know that when daddy is home they are to be quiet or less noisy.

Most men are hungry when they come home so have his dinner ready and waiting. Always dress up sexy at the time of hubby's arrival. Pull your hair down and be fresh looking, interesting and entertaining. Turn on music if that's one of his pleasures and give him the cutest dance show ever, that will definitely lift up his spirit. But allow him to rest after.

Sometimes though, when the two of you as a couple are in a fight and you are still angry after the fight, you dont feel like pleasing him, you probably want to strangle or constrict his neck because you are not happy with him. lolz! Yeah i get that. But here is an advice, never ever take any fight between the two of you seriously that way you will be able to handle the situation really well. 

Even if you find your husband cheating, yes punish him. But dont forget that men are polygamous in nature and at the end of the day you want to be that one woman he cant compare to another. Also remember you are a team, so you should still try to make things work. Show your power as a woman, the soft, soothing and pleasant side of you shouldn't disappear. Your husband will respect you for that and he will be forever sorry for hurting you plus your relationship can only get better.

And then he will want to come home everyday because he rather be with you than anyone else in the world. You want him to be on your side but not by pressure or moral obligation.

The goal here is to make your home a peaceful place where both of you can enjoy each other and your husband after a long hard day at work, can renew himself in body and spirit. 

Good luck !

Note: NO woman is perfect, I am not either. This is #justl'marilsaying.