Dealing with criticism and judgements

Even though I feel like criticism should make you a better person and you can learn from it, I still feel like before one criticise others they should first be able to do better. You don't just call an alligator big mouth until you cross the river.

Before judging others, first look at how clean your own heart is. For example I do not have any right to judge someone say because they are vegetarians and I eat meat. Or judge someone automatically because his faith is different from mine. Or even judge one based on how they choose to dress.  Does doing things differently makes me a saint? Certainly not. It doesn't make me better or make them less human.

I do not believe in making assumption, unfairly stereotyping or negatively pointing a person is a certain way when I can't read their minds or see their hearts. Even if I could, I am not in the position to judge.

I beleive in humanity. At the end of the day how other people chose to present themselves, what they choose to eat, what their beleives are and basically how they live their lives is not my business. And it is not for me to judge. We may not agree on everything but we can definitely agree to disagree.

Sometimes people judge or critise you just so they can put hurdles on your path, throwing hash words so they can make your journey to greatness a difficulty. Well guess what, you should know they are doing you more good than harm, because their criticism can only build up your energy and make you even stronger.

If you are not being criticised, then you are not saying anything, doing anything and being anything.