Staying in love with the Husband

Recently I have been talking to some women on how they feel about staying in love with the Husband even after years of marriage if at all they think it was possible. One woman said to me it is possible to love your husband but it will be difficult to stay in love like the early days when both of you gave each other butterflies. She added that things changes after years of marriage like having kids and just getting carried away in other life activities basically takes love excitements out of the way.

But I believe that one can still stay in love or even further fall in love with their spouses with each passing year. If you want it you definitely make it happen. You just need to make the effort and pay attention to your love life and make it a priority. Women make mistake of believing that showing a man he is needed  will turn him off. But we should know that men also want what women want. So dear wife, go all the way in showing your husband how much you love him and how much he is needed. I may not be a love guru but I sure do have a little experience. Here are some tips in staying in love with hubby even after years of marriage.

The most important step in keeping the bond and strong connection with your husband should be the "us time". The more you get quality time the stronger the relationship gets and the further the love grows. Both of you may spend a lot of time Together but ask your self is this time quality time? Even if you are too busy, make sure you spare time where you can focus on him. It may be difficult sometimes especially when you have young kids, but you should still try your best to make it happen in some feasible  form. You could take him out on dates (which of course he will pay the bills, lol) and when you do go out, Make sure to not talk about the kids or any othe family issues don't talk about your days at work too, remeber it is the "us time" just keep the focus on yourselves.

Try new things together with your Husband. Make him laugh and be silly at all times it can create the some chemical bond of intimacy. Keep the connection throughout the day, send short romantic messages or email to let him know you are thinking about him. Or you could just call him up at work and remind him how fun and enjoyable last night was and how you cannot wait for him to get home. Always praise his physical appearance, it will be really nice and helpful for your man to know that you still find him attractive.

And while your spouse is away, show him how much you miss him. When hubby travels and you miss him a lot. Every night while he is away, sleep in his pyjama or his  t-shirt so u can have a little feel of him, it will help you deal with his absence and comfort you a little bit ( I do that all the time) And you could also keep a little piece of you in his luggage like a hand lotion or a perfume you wear all the time so he can smell you while he is away. This will keep both of you connected.

A great marriage is build on little daily practices that adds flavours to husband and wife relationship which helps both stay in love forever. There is no greater  feelings like the feelings of staying in love with the Husband.