Latest Queen

Currently trending is the Recent secret wedding  of the Emir Of Kano to the 18yr old princess of Adamawa state. 
Check out stunning photos of the latest Queen.
Brace yourself, this is a king's daughter, a Kings wife and will be a mother  to Prince and princess.

Being a mum

No one says being a mum is an easy job, But I tell you it's a beautiful one. When you are a mother your life changes in a beautiful way.

I love waking up in the middle of the night checking up on my kids in their beds. I do enjoy waking up in the morning fixing their breakfast and packing up their lunch bags. I get a little crazy with the mess they make around the house and the headaches they give me sometimes. But I wouldn't have it any other way, I love every minute of there being around. And I know most mothers will relate to this.

Sometimes i step in their world a little bit and joins in with the running around the house and all, I found out how good it felt and how much fun it was especially for them.
So I learned to accommodate the mess they make around the house a little bit more.

Watching them grow and seeing how different personality each kid has is an amazing experience.
When you are a mother,  you naturally become a better person. You always want to be good at whatever you do. I love my babies and i always pray to God to guide and protect them always. My life right now as a mum I wouldn't change it for anything.

Eid celebrations

The days of eid have been singled out in the hadith as the days of remembrance.

Eid celebrations includes firstly offering salat, gathering of family and friends, meals especially lunches and late breakfast (brunches), wearing new cloths, gift giving, giving gifts/money as a token of love.

There is also sacrifices of usually, sheep, cow, buffalo or camel.
Donating one third of the sacrifice meat to family, friends and neighbours  also to the poor and needy.

Eid celebrations in arewa is the best. It's always the best time for family to come together and celebrate with one accord. Every one gets so busy putting together what to wear, some henna designing going on here and there the spirit of eid is so amazing in the north.

As a child we all get so excited everytime Eid festivals approaches. It is one of the best memories I have of my childhood.

I say Eid mubarak to all the Muslims out there.

Migraine days.

Ok so today I woke up with migraine. Usually When migraine strikes I just stay up in my room, sit quietly in the dark as i check my blood pressure and massages my hair with one little hand massager I got from India.
Sometimes i wish I could just get out of lagos and move to Algeria or something. Lolz!

Today reminded me of way back when I was in school and I complained  about a whole lotta things like Migraine, ulcer, and stuff like that. One of my teachers I cnt remember her name but we use to call her 'they didn't barb your hair' they reason why we called her that was because of an incident that happened where we got our hair cut by the school authority because we didn't braid which was against the school rule. 

So because of the nature of my hair,  a weak after the hair cut my hair grew back. So she will call me every time, looked at my hair and she will say 'they didn't barb your hair'. 😀then we started calling her that. She always told me I complained to much because I am lazy and if I keep doing that,  no one will marry me. 😀😃 so today as I complain about ulcer, migraine and all, made me remembered her and I wonder where she is now. Am also realising that I've always been like this.?😮

Today's thought.

The weather a lil cold today and I made me a cup of hot tea. With my cup of tea within reach, I started thinking about a whole lot of things. Am a Leo so my birthday is around the corner, I asked my self if there was anything I would want to change in my life. I realized actually I wouldn't change anything at all.

I also learned that a woman should be her own hero, we fall in love and sometimes fall out of love, every woman want to belong to someone but that  shouldn't define her. No woman should allow her self become vulnerable. Every woman should have some dignity. I am fortunate to have the people that are in my life; my husband such an amazing man he loves me endlessly n I would not change him for anything. My boys are my everything, I try to be the best mum I can be.

I teach my kids to respect women and never think for one bit that women are inferior. I also teach them to be the best they can be and to ask questions or seek for help when they need it,  because asking for help is not a sign of weakness.

We make mistakes, we are not perfect we can only learn from our mistakes. The world is like a stage where everyone most play a part,  We are all here for a reason.

My good old Father.

My good old father is always my pillar of strength when ever I need him. He's been there and he's still here for me anytime any day I call.

My good old father, his hard face changes to his softer site only for me. He is a tough man but I bring out his soft site.

My good old father, he brought me up so well, provided for me, protected me and taught me all I know.

My good old father, he inspires me to do me. He is my favourite human being and sometimes I feel like am exactly like him.

My good old father sits on the white plastic chair out in the front yard and watch me board the private bus to school.

My good old father provided me with my very own after school private Islamic classes right in the comfort of my home

I am really thank full for the way he raised me. He never took his eyes off me, he watched my every step and guided me through becoming the beautiful young woman that I am today.

My good old father, the first man i ever fell in love with. no one, just no one like My good old father.

My good old father, to me and my siblings "I am your unifying factor" he would always say.

Long live my good old father.

First love.

Here is what i know first love feels like. Hopefully you all relate to this.

First love is the one that you first truly have feelings for. One person you will never forget. Their love will leave an imprint on your heart which will be there forever.

That feelings you get when ever you see your first love, you feel weightless, and everyone else seems to disappear. You want to fall into their arms and kiss them. But you restrain yourself waiting for that perfect moment and you keep telling yourself, be patient he will be mine someday.

Young and naive, you see your first love for the very first time in slow mo. Yes slow motions happens not only in the movies. You also starts to float or melt when your first love walks in.

Your first love will be the hardest to get over, the one that can still make you smile even when you are having the worst day ever. And even when they are gone you'll still love them. The truth is your first love never leaves.